Diets For Women

Real, Fast, Sustainable Weight Loss For Women

It's somewhat of a accepted belief that women simply have a harder time losing weight than men, and to a certain extent this is true. Women are genetically designed to carry more fat, but that doesn't mean that they cannot gain muscle, lose fat, or get in shape on-par with men.

All it takes is a few minor tweaks to diet and exercise plans, as well as dispelling a few longstanding myths to get started. With this information, you should be perfectly capable of breaking a weight-loss stall, kicking your fat burn into high gear, or simply get going on a healthier path.

Whether you're a seasoned pro looking to push past a plateau or you're completely new to the process of dieting and fitness, there's always something to learn that can change everything.

Reshape your body by reforming your diet

There are several old adages around weight loss that are completely true:

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    you can't out-train a bad diet 
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    bodies are made in the kitchen, not the gym

While there are a plethora of other similar sayings when it comes to weight loss, very few hold as much water as these two. If you're going to the gym every morning but eating M&Ms mixed with Doritos every night for dinner, you're not going to succeed.

While obviously that example is an extreme one(and gross, blech), there definitely is nuance to fueling your body in a way that is less likely to make you retain fat.

The most important concept along these lines is to stop "dieting" in the traditional sense and start to simply take care of your diet. When your knowledge of how the three primary macro nutrients - fat, carbs, and protein - affect your body, you can better understand how fluctuations of weight loss and gain can occur.

For instance, in the 1990s there was a huge push towards low fat marketing for processed foods; low fat was in, natural fats like butter, olive oil, and tallow were out. While this seemed like it would address the problem of obesity, it did nothing of the sort.

The reason that low fat processed foods don't work is multi-fold, but the primary reason is because when you take natural fat out of a food, you either need to synthesize it with margarine or some other very unhealthy trans fat, OR you need to replace it with sugar.

That's what all of the low fat foods do; they take out naturally occurring fats and replace them with highly processed sugar. This sugar then raises insulin, which tries to shuttle the sugar as energy to cells. If the cells don't need energy, though, the sugar is stored as body fat. This is, quite obviously, a big problem.

So what's a better way to look at these macro nutrients such that you get a nutritionally complete diet but without sacrificing taste and without being hungry all the time?

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Prioritize Protein

Protein is a wonderful macro nutrient.

It repairs damaged muscle, sates our hunger, provides lasting energy, and doesn't spike insulin the way that carbs will. In addition, you can get protein readily from many sources, regardless of your preferred diet.


Women dieters in particular tend to undervalue protein, but it tends to be undervalued in general, either for unfounded concerns that it will negatively affect the kidneys or because it's simply not addressed. In particular if a person is exercising on a regular basis, they should be trying to get about .6 grams of protein per pound of lean body mass, more if they are weightlifting or doing some other intense workout.

Fortunately, protein can be had from a variety of delicious sources.

For instance:

Meat

  • Beef - all cuts, including fatty ones like ribeye, lean cuts like sirloin, and organ meats like liver
  • Pork - Pork tenderloins are great, cheap, easy to prepare, and when cooked properly provide plenty of protein and flavor in a myriad of applications
  • Lamb and mutton - Another nutrient-dense red meat
  • Chicken - Look for pastured, free range, or locally sourced birds and buy a whole one. Learning how to break down and cook a whole chicken is a great life skill and they're far cheaper this way
  • Turkey, duck, and other poultry - A whole frozen turkey will provide you with more protein than you can eat in a thousand lifetimes it seems, but if you meal prep and are able to freeze leftovers, it will be well worth it
  • Fish - Avoid farmed fish like tilapia - though it's cheap, it's because it's nutritionally very poor. In addition, fish farmed outside of the US will not need to adhere to the United States aquaponics standards, and are often farmed in very polluted environments. Wild caught is best, and the smaller the fish, the better (sardines, mackeral, skipjack tuna, etc)
  • Other seafood - A great source, like fish, of omega-3 fatty acids as well as protein. The main caveats of eating shellfish for instance is with shrimp, as it is often raised in fairly bad conditions in other countries

Meat-Adjacent Foods

Animal products like eggs and dairy are a fantastic source of protein and fat. Eggs are in fact one of the most perfect foods you can eat, and even more so because you needn’t worry about the cholesterol in them.

Dietary cholesterol does not affect blood cholesterol, so eat those eggs.

Cheese is a good source of calcium and protein, as long as you avoid processed ones like American. Opt for hard cheeses as they’re lower in milk sugars. The only big caveat with cheese is that it is very calorie-dense, so it needs to be something you eat sparingly, but don’t skimp on the fat. Low fat cheese is not healthy.

Yogurt, especially Greek yogurt or Icelandic skir, is a great source of both protein and vital gut bacteria. Greek and Icelandic yogurts are strained, doubling the protein counts in most scenarios, and are more likely to be made with whole ingredients like real fruit rather than a sugar-infused slurry of chemicals.


Sorry to beat the horse I rode in on, but again, avoid low fat yogurt – some have as much sugar or more than a literal candy bar.

Plant Proteins

Ruminants like sheep, goats, and cows have big muscles but they don’t eat meat and they’re able to maintain their strength because plants are actually a fairly good source of protein.


The issue most people might have is the volume of plant material you need to eat in order to achieve protein goals but it’s worth it for the nutritional payoff.

  • Spinach – not just for pipe-smoking sailors, spinach is absolutely full of nutrition, including protein. It’s a really good base for a salad, but you can cook it down as well. A little lifehack if you don’t like the taste is to freeze leaf spinach and blend it into a fruit
  • Broccoli – though not as protein dense as other veggies, this particular one is filled with phytochemicals and believe it or not, calcium. Broccoli is a nutritional powerhouse and you should be eating it constantly. I should, too. Everyone should.
  • Nuts and seeds – Along with eggs, another entrant in the “perfect food club”. Like cheese, nuts and seeds are calorie dense and should be eaten in small amounts, but their nutritional benefits are astoundingly vast.
  • Peas – green peas are a common plant from which vegan protein powder is made, and this is because peas are highly protein dense.
  • Legumes – black beans, kidney beans, lima beans; all of these are full of slow-digesting carbs and protein. Great for satiety and nutritionally exceptional, legumes are a cheap, easy addition-to or base for a dinner
  • Nut butters – Peanut butter is a great source of protein, it’s cheap, and it’s delicious! Other nut butters such as almond, sunflower, or cashew butter can also provide a wonderful source of healthy fats and protein

Animal products like eggs and dairy are a fantastic source of protein and fat.

Eggs are in fact one of the most perfect foods you can eat, and even moreso because you needn’t worry about the cholesterol in them. Dietary cholesterol does not affect blood cholesterol, so eat those eggs.

Cheese is a good source of calcium and protein, as long as you avoid processed ones like American. Opt for hard cheeses as they’re lower in milk sugars. The only big caveat with cheese is that it is very calorie-dense, so it needs to be something you eat sparingly, but don’t skimp on the fat. Low fat cheese is not healthy.

Yogurt, especially Greek yogurt or Icelandic skir, is a great source of both protein and vital gut bacteria. Greek and Icelandic yogurts are strained, doubling the protein counts in most scenarios, and are more likely to be made with whole ingredients like real fruit rather than a sugar-infused slurry of chemicals.

Sorry to beat the horse I rode in on, but again, avoid low fat yogurt – some have as much sugar or more than a literal candy bar.

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2: Eat Fat To Burn Fat


Dietary fat has been vilified over the years due to a multitude of factors, but it’s truly not the boogeyman that it’s made out to be. Sugar is the real enemy, and dietary fat from whole food sources like coconut oil, real butter, ghee, avocado and olive oils, beef tallow, and bacon grease are all highly useful, delicious, and healthy. In addition, dietary fat creates a sense of satiety, which will naturally help you eat less.

Fats to eat

  • Coconut oil, unrefined ideally. This just means it's still going to have the coconut flavor
  • Animal fats - beef tallow, chicken grease, lard, etc. Essentially cook like your great-grandmother
  • Butter and ghee - margarine is highly unhealthy, even when it's not filled with trans fat. The greatest trick the food industry ever pulled was convincing a generation that the way their parents and grandparents ate somehow needed corporate intervention. It's time to reembrace butter
  • Olive oil - Delicious and a healthy source of unsaturated fats
  • Avocado oil - another healthy source of unsaturated fats, avocado oil has become popular due to its health benefits and mild flavor

Fats to Avoid

  • Trans fat - Potentially one of the worst things you could eat, trans fats are modified fats that seem to directly influence inflammation in the veins and arteries and contribute to heart disease. The suggested daily limit of trans fat is 2g, so that should be a good indication that it should be avoided
  • Vegetable, canola, or corn oil – cheap and plentiful, these oils are made by using industrial solvents to separate the oil from, well, vegetables. They promote systemic inflammation and also have a strong link to heart disease

If you're trying to lose weight, dietary fat should be a tool to stop hunger and increase energy. It's not a numeric target the way protein is; rather you want to eat enough that you're not ravenous but if you've got fat to burn, you don't need much fat to eat.

Curb Your Carbs To Burn Fat Fast!

Not all carbohydrates are created equal; fast digesting carbs like sugar, bananas, candy, etc are generally not the best thing if you're trying to lose weight. The way sugar drives fat gain is like this:

  • When you eat fast digesting carbs - bread for instance - your blood sugar spikes
  • As your blood sugar spikes, your body releases insulin to deal with it.
  • Insulin tries to shuttle the sugar into your cells for energy. If it can't (meaning the cells don't want it or need it) then it gets converted into glycogen and stored in the liver and muscles. About 200g, give or take, of glycogen can be stored this way
  • If the insulin cannot store it the first 2 ways, then it converts it into fat and stores it like that.
  • As this process happens over and over, your cells get resistant to the insulin, which means more needs to be released when you eat sugar to get the job done. This is because when sugar is high in our blood, it damages everything from the veins in your eyes which can lead to blindness to your organs which can do significant long-term damage
  • Insulin resistance over time becomes type 2 diabetes
  • When insulin resistance is very high - like in type 2 diabetes but even beforehand - the cycle of sugar-in, insulin-release, blood-sugar drop drives hunger and further fat gain, perpetuating a problematic cycle.

Slow-digesting carbs like vegetables, lower sugar fruits (like berries), nuts, legumes, and complete grains like amaranth, quinoa, or barley, are healthy alternatives to highly processed breads, flours, and sugars.

These should form the bulk of your carb intake, but the best way to really torch fat quickly is to drastically cut your carbs back.

The average western diet consists of upwards of 250 grams of carbs a day, which is an astronomically high number. To really lose weight, try restricting your carbs under 50g a day. You will see results quickly and you'll find that after a short adjustment period where your body loses its addiction to sugar, that you feel great at 50g of carbs or less per day.

If you think your body cannot sustain itself without a copious amount of carbs, consider this: there are essential fatty acids and essential amino acids (proteins) but there are literally no essential carbs. This leads us into our next tip:

Blast fat off at light speed by utilizing ketosis

Buzzword though it may be, keto is a tried and true diet that works, and works quickly. By restricting your carbs to 50g or less a day (20g is the best place to start for the first 2 weeks), your body enters a state of metabolism called ketosis.

Now ketosis causes your body to break down stored fat into ketone bodies, replacing the role of carbohydrate for energy production. The only organ in the body that doesn't strictly run better with ketones is the brain, but don't fret: the brain can create all the glucose it needs (about 100g/day) via a process called gluconeogenesis. The body is pretty cool honestly.

Ketosis has been used to treat childhood epilepsy for over 100 years with zero ill effects in the children. It was described by both Dr. Rollin Turner Woodyatt and Dr. William Banting as a beneficial way of eating to reduce excess fat in the 1920s, 30s, and 40s.

Most recently before this recent craze was the Dr. Atkins New Diet Revolution, in which Atkins' nutritional approach is very similar to a ketogenic diet.

Ketosis reduces bodily inflammation, providing energy by burning your stored fat. A side effect of ketosis is reduced appetite, which also helps weight loss. Most people who strictly adhere to the 20-50g or less a day carb restriction will lose between 10 and 20 pounds of weight in the first 2 weeks. While a large part of this is water weight (glycogen is stored in water within the liver and muscle, so when we use all of it our body sheds that water), a good amount of it is fat as well.

There are a myriad of other benefits to ketosis, so do not believe the negative press; it's a perfectly safe, healthy, and effective metabolic state that provides the energy you need and appetite suppression you want to get and stay on a dietary track.

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  • Utilizing the protein list above, create a meal plan full of non-starchy vegetables (no corn or potatoes, sorry!) and fatty cuts of meat that you will enjoy
  • Choose a start date - Monday or Sunday work fine - and plan for 2 weeks straight from that start date
  • The night before you begin, work out as hard as possible, whatever that means for you. For some that will be a long walk, crossfit, swimming, but for others it really might simply be walking around the house. The point here is to burn as much glycogen as possible
  • The next day, begin restricting your dietary carbs to 20g or less, and eat this way for 2 weeks
  • Do not fret over calories; carbs are the concern, so eat to satiety from non-carby foods like meat, eggs, and vegetables
  • Weigh yourself initially and use a tailor's tape to take measurements, and then don't weigh yourself again until the 2 weeks are up
  • Be absolutely amazed at how much progress you made in such a short time!
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    Now that your diet is on lock, what exercises burn the most fat?

    Weight lifting. I know you're a woman and you don't want to be huge and bulky but you won't be. Weight lifting creates strength, balance, improves posture, improves insulin sensitivity, and the muscle you create increases your metabolism.


    Though the immediate fat burn from weight lifting isn't profound, the long term benefits are profound.


    For cardio, high-intensity interval training, or HIIT, is a fat BLASTER. Exercises like sprints, short runs interspersed with walking, stair climbing, or bodyweight squats are phenomenal at improving heart function and burning fat.

    Try the Tabata protocol and see how you feel after a few weeks:

    Begin by squatting as fast as you can, over and over, for 20 seconds, and then rest for 10 seconds.


    Repeat this pattern 8 times for 4 minutes.

    That's it, one of the most effective cardio workouts that torches fat and makes your heart stronger.

    Finally, sustained, low intensity activity daily - like walking - is a great way to boost your metabolism, lower your blood pressure, and improve your overall health.

    Try ensuring you get 10,000 steps a day and see how much better you feel overall.

    Health is a combination of a great diet and consistent exercise

    The most important component to weight loss - both in the short term and in the long term - is diet. By reformulating your view of food, focusing on protein and vegetables, cutting your carbs, and fueling yourself with whole foods, your weight loss will begin to be effortless.

    By then adding in sustained, consistent exercise, you will see steady, strong weight loss and improved health. By drastically reducing your carbs, you will see the fat fly off faster than you can buy new clothes to replace the old ones that are too big, but that's a pretty good problem to have.

    Get out there, engage in the mindful restructuring of how you care for your body and you will see dramatic, sustainable, wonderful results!